One of the Upanishad explains the sex as like this. The vagina (yoni) is the yaga pit, the male pouring ghee in it and performing holy ritual the fumes are the hairs and in that process the life generates. Continuing this yaga process there is one stage called poornaagudhi. Where the respective sage/priest will offer the amirtha Paagam to his respective god. The god will appear in the fire to receive the amirtha paagam. This is called power of disciple. If we often invoke lord shiva in yaga and offer amirtha paagam then shiva gets strength and becomes strong to answer his devotees. Similarly the amirtha paagam of one’s wife must reach to her husband. thats how shiva (husband) receives strength from sakthi(wife). If the faith and devotion is fake and cheating then husband will not receive strength. It’s like thefting the power from electricity circuit. It is not one has to be a billionaire because of his wifes faith but it’s a matter of devotion and protection. These days iam only seeing father is in heaven and sons are in pubs and parties. We forgot the concept of Shiva and shakthi. Just think when they give initiation they say to us , we should not allow others to sit in out mat. Here how you will receive the amirtha from your husband if the cosmic vibes confused of who is the shiva of whose shakthi ? That’s why we need to invoke shiva to establish righteousness. When we became shiva obviously they will become shakthi. Otherwise one size fits all.
